In Search of Coffee
I arose this morning without my usual “ease into the morning” routine. No languid stretches and gentle yoga poses before my morning coffee and workout. I flew from the bed, exhausted but needing to fire on all cylinders immediately. For those familiar with the old Blondie cartoons, I felt a bit like Dagwood! I had so much to accomplish today but my body truly wanted to crawl under the covers and sleep.
Several hours into my whirlwind of a day, I realized I needed coffee and food. I only had time for one and made my ruling by proximity. There was no time to run to Starbucks so I’d have to get my pick-me-up from a lean protein source instead. I popped out and around the corner to a new neighborhood restaurant (really more of a deli). From the moment I opened the door, my senses were delighted by the sights and sounds. The décor was a nostalgic delight and all of the patrons were gazing around as they ate enjoying the magical whimsy. As I waited for my order, I too admired the black and white photographs (my personal favorite) and all of the New York props (including a miniature King Kong on a Brooklyn Bridge suspended from the ceiling) that decorated the walls and ceiling.
I took my eyes from the sights momentarily to scan the patrons. I love imagining why people are in a place and attaching a back story to them. Crowds also offer an opportunity to pick up gestures and subtleties to use later in my writing. As I scanned the room mentally adding details, my eyes met a woman of about 60 with white hair and a twinkle in her eye. I struck up a conversation and learned that she was actually 73, widowed and the gentleman across from her was her brother. Greta was visiting her younger brother Joey from her home in New York.
I am also a widow (although only 43) and we struck common ground. We’ve both been widowed for less than 5 years and have found our footing and zest for life. I watched Greta’s eyes light up and the years melt away as she spoke of the loving marriage she shared with her dear Bob for 50 years. Like me, she had loved long and well and had no regrets. She was looking forward to seeing her beloved again one day, but not soon! Greta had discovered a secret that so many miss – life is filled with challenges, heartbreaks and triumphs but each new day is worthy of discovery and celebration.
Greta did not choose to be a widow. But once she had grieved, she picked herself up and created a new life. She told me how she had learned to enjoy being able to do “whatever I want.” Her eyes again twinkled with merriment as she shared her “girl gone wild” adventures. Of course, at age 73 going wild is taking a walk in Times Square after 8 pm.
Greta and Bob teased one another as we chatted. We swapped New York stories and Michigan transplant stories. It was nice to see that the brother-sister bond only gets better with age. I watched them and thought “ How wonderful to have a life filled with love and laughter.” My time with Greta and Bob came all too quickly to an end. I did not get coffee today but got a jolt that will last much longer than a caffeine buzz – a reminder that there are treasures waiting to be opened every day if you’re willing to look!
Until next time,
Karen D. Swim
Words For Hire
Karen enjoys coffee and writing in Michigan. Words For Hire is a creative development company offering copywriting, ghostwriting and marketing services to businesses. For information on small business issues visit http://www.wordsforhire.blogspot.com. If you need help with your creative content, contact Karen at karen@wordsforhirellc.com.













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